Hot Child in the City

Jeez. People are mad at me for not blogging. Be HAPPY, readers, I’m in a good mood so I won’t bitch at you too much for being mean to me. But, I have to say, there’s a SHITLOAD I could write about. SOO, I’m just going to make a list of things that are going on in my life. General, everyday things, nothing deep, nothing about my past. Just things you want to know. So enjoy.

Ooh, by the way, the reason this post is called “Hot Child In The City”, is after the Joan Jett song, which, for some reason, played OVER AND OVER when I was cleaning my bathroom, and because I was all gross and soapy, I didn’t want to touch Flamingo to skip the song. It’s kind of become a theme for my mom and I. Plus, now I’M a hot child in the city. Hells yes.

1. I’ve been doing a lot of tidying up lately. Yes, I have lived in this house for a month now, so it’s a bit late to be doing those final boxes or chores around the house. But we’ve had something to do every weekend, and this past weekend was no different. We spent all day Saturday raking our asses off in the backyard, along with hauling wood from one pile to another. Then, Sunday, we shopped for and planted tulip bulbs. My favourite flowers, I’ve never had tulips before, and now we finally can grow them in our very own backyard. Aside from the outdoorsy chores, there are the indoorsy ones too, including the awful ones like #2 and the BITCHIN’ ones like organizing my desk, closet, and dresser.
2. I am inclined to count this as a separate point, because even though it falls under the house category, it is not fun, entertaining, or relaxing. This is the task of bathroom cleaning. It sounds awful, it makes me sound pampered and spoiled, but I haven’t thoroughly cleaned a bathroom in an awfully long time. This was one of those all out, scrub the entire room, kind of things. I won’t get into the details, but let’s just say, it wasn’t the sponge turning the water that funny colour when I was cleaning the shower.
3. ON A DIFFERENT NOTE, School is insane these days. December exams (we had a set in October too) are only 3 and a half weeks away, and it’s the usual ZOMFG Teacher Moment, where they mercilessly assign us a shitload all at once. So next week, and the week after that, are filled with big intense time-consuming projects. Luckily, I’ve recently been gifted the gift of time. See #5.
4. Speaking of school, we found out today that our school has been threatened in some way. Apparently, someone wrote on a bathroom wall in one of the school’s buildings that…bad…stuff will happen this coming Sunday. I don’t know if they know and aren’t telling us, or if they just don’t know, but the teachers aren’t saying what bad stuff we’re to expect. Now, supposedly, this happens every year, and sometimes a couple times a year, but usually on April Fool’s Day. Of course, the school can’t “take it lightly”, so things are a little uptight at school starting today and going til Tuesday – security guards hanging around (contrary to ISPS, this isn’t a normality), and classroom doors being locked during class. No one’s very worried, and I’m not either. I just can’t stop thinking how Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets this sounds (“her skeleton will lie in the chamber forever” – remember that?).
5. After two months of living here, you’d think I’d be aces at the public transportation system. Quite the contrary. About a week ago I took my first ever Winnipeg bus ride, with a friend on the way to spend the night at her house. I’m now at the point where I’m taking a bus ALL ALONE home after school. It’s weird being so independent. I like it, don’t get me wrong, but trying out this whole new system was and still is terrifying. I’ve heard horror stories about people who tried to get to my school, the University of Winnipeg, and ended up at the University of Manitoba, about 40 minutes away from the right school. But overall, this bus thing is pretty bitchin’. It’s fun, and it saves me so much time in afternoons, in comparison with walking to my mom’s office and waiting for her til 5:00 and driving home (expect a post about that later).
6. Sorry to keep talking about school, but I feel I should give the low-down on a couple of my classes. This year, I’m taking Drama, Creative Writing (called Trans Forms, officially), Canadian History, English (called Literary Focus, officially), Pre-Calculus, and Spanish.
   • Drama is fun and just plain Drama-y. I’m getting 100%, not much to complain about.
   • Creative Writing has some of the best people. We have a kickass time in that class, and some fun things, like poetry and playwriting are to come. I worry sometimes that the constant assignments are stealing my “creative juices”, but I can’t bitch, it’s a lot of fun and an opportunity I know Jamie and maybe Eddie would love to have.
   • Canadian History. Well. I was enraged at first, and still a little peeved, that the school thinks their kids can get by without only knowledge of Canadian History. There isn’t even the OPTION for American or World History. I was so worried about falling insanely behind (having ZERO knowledge of this country’s past). I know we complained about our Modern World History class, but without that, I’d be pretty screwed for…life. That said, this class also has some pretty fun people and is a lot of fun. The teacher, recognized school-wide as “the short, mean one” can be pretty strict, but can cackle every now and then.
   • I have to say, Ms. Chesler, I miss you. My English teacher this year is a bit of a prick – and my mom agrees, which says something. He’s picked some good books and plays this year (A Doll’s House, The Great Gatsby, Macbeth, The Glass Menagerie, 1984, and a couple others), but I hate his learning style (and his MLA-format obsessed ways), and I think he imposes his opinion on us a lot of the time. I’m trying to suck it up and deal, but it’s pretty tough, and makes me ache for the days when Ches taught the un-seaming scene of Macbeth by standing barefoot on a chair with a stick and stabbing at the air victoriously.
   • Pre-Cal. Pre-Cal, Pre-Cal, Pre-Cal. Whenever I think about my teacher in this class, I think of him going “Ohhhkay”. He’s very chilled, very lax, and seems mostly concerned with us understanding the information. He’s good. I’ll give him that. He goes a little fast, but he hasn’t yelled or even gotten annoyed once the entire two months. I’m a bit worried about our upcoming test, on what I’m dubbing “The Seven Deadly Sins Equations”. My favourite moment from class so far: after my teacher FOILed something out on the board, I asked if we could just use the stacking method instead. He had me come up to front of the room and do that on the board, and when I was almost done, he sighed, and said, under his breath, “Ohh, that’s cool.”
   • Spanish – though I’m usually exhausted by the time I get to this class at the end of the day, it’s a nice throwback to lovely simple 8th grade Spanish I, and our five (sometimes six) person class has some good times.

There. Yes, I talked about school a lot, but cmon, to whom is that NOT a big deal? Hope you people are happy.

PS: Kaster – your turn.

An Explanation and An Apology

So, my dearest friends, I feel I owe the world (or my three? four? readers) an explanation for my, and there’s no other way to say it, shitiness as a blogger recently. I’ve done two new posts in the last four months. I’m extremely ashamed. I made a New Year’s Resolution to blog at least once a week, and need I say that that is one resolution I definitely haven’t kept. So, first thing’s first:

SORRY, WORLD!

Sorry to the Trinidad folks who have no clue what’s going on in my life other than the snippets they hear on Facebook and MSN.  Sorry to the lovely Ugandan traveler who is unfortunately not here to kick my butt into writing but probably wants to hear about how her table is doing. I realize now (four months too late) that I should have left a “hiatus” note on my blog after my 15th birthday post. I didn’t know I would get so little time (or, to be honest, have so little enthusiasm) to blog over summer and the settling-in period.

Things are finally calming down a little bit here. Having gotten our wireless internet set up, we have gone from having one crappy US State Department-issued laptop, to living in a hotspot (making Flamingo so happy his increasingly-sucky speakers are squeaking more than usual). I hope to get back into what I thought was a good blogging routine from Trinidad.

There’s a lot to talk about. There’s the Swan Song post (which I promise, Jamiekinz, to not actually call “The Swan Song” cos that’d just be mean stealing), the Leaving TNT post, the approximately one MILLION posts I could write about my summer, all the settling-into-Canada posts, the Tony-leaving post, the My-New-School post. You guys. I have my work cut out for me. To make it easier, I’ll try and date things appropiately. This might be a bad idea. Hhm. Like, if you see July 1st, for example, assume I mean all of July. But I’ll explain it when we get to that.

So, folks, I apologize once again. I hope this will stop Eddie from cyber-abusing me and my conscience from mentally abusing me. If I’m not forgiven, however, feel free to spam me.

PS: Expect lists. Lots of lists. Okay, I’ll try and keep the lists to a minimum. Maybe lists where each point is a paragraph? (Yeah? YEAH? YAY!)

Top 5 Most Awesome Things About Canada, So Far

1. Blending in. Having lived in Trinidad, and Bangladesh before that, for six years total, Americans tend to stick out like a sore thumb. Especially for me and my mom, who, being blonde, tend to be the anomaly among locals. Some Deshis had never even see people with blonde hair, and would frequently come up to us and stroke it. Canadians, for the most part, look like Americans. On the street, we don’t look at all out of the ordinary, until we start pointing at street signs and whipping out maps to cure our extreme lost-ness.
2. The seperation (of church and state. No, just kidding) of the city, with suburbia. It’s very clear, on every map, that what is north and west of the two rivers (Assiniboine and Red, which intersect at an area called the Forks) is the city, a place of work, and if you live there well then you’re just plain weird. South or east of the rivers, that’s where you live, no question about it. And even though they claim to have different neighborhoods (for instance, Tuxedo, the fancy, Grosse Pointe [Michigan] area; vs. Woolsely, fondly known as “Granolaville”), the suburban neighborhoods blend together to form one endless mass of houses, punctuated by the occasional school.
3. Though Canada claims to be bilingual, it is not so to an obnoxious point. Miami drove me crazy, because it seemed like, although we were in America, Spanish was favored, and it was like an endless war between the two languages. Here, in what is not technically the French part of the country, both languages are equal in favor when it comes to street signs, but yet it’s not overwhelming. So I don’t feel like shrieking at these poor people to pick a goddamn language.
4. The repetition of two kickass restaurants, Subway, and Tim Horton’s. For those who don’t know, Tim Horton’s is basically a Starbucks, but less corporization-y. It’s very popular in the Northern US (Michigan had tons) and Canada, and it appears that the people here run on it. That, combined with the deliciousness of Subway sandwiches (in comparison to the ONE in all of Trinidad), makes Robin a very happy camper. I get an Iced Capp, along with a Turkey Breast on Parmesan Oregano, American cheese, lettuce, tomatoes, cucumbers, black olives, and honey mustard. Damn, now I’m hungry.
5. Last, but most definitely not least, and you’ll chuckle, but it’s true – I am the same color, if not darker, as some of the people here. We all joked I would be tan in comparison to Kanucks, and I hate to break it to you, but in some cases, that has turned out to be true. Hells yeah.

Peace Offering?

I sleep differently here. In Trinidad, you are lulled to sleep by millions of frogs, crickets, and who knows what else chirping at you through your window, mere feet from your head. It becomes white noise, and that, combined with the air conditioners undoubtedly installed in every room in the house, provide a quiet blanket of noise for you all night long.

In Winnipeg, it’s different. I haven’t lived downtown in a city for so long, I’ve forgotten what it’s like. We hear sirens going at all hours, either because Canadians are particulary accident-prone, or simply because we (apparently) live close to a fire station. Whatever the reason, these sirens, combined with the occasional shouting or thumping coming from floors above and below us, don’t make it particulary harder to sleep. It’s just different. Compared to falling asleep knowing nature is all around you, this concrete jungle, though not as impressive as New York or London, has its own city personality and the Peggers love it anyways.

14 Years and 364 Days

Tomorrow, June 19th, is my 15th birthday. Time to look back on all the events that have happened in my 14th year of life, which began at the end of 9th grade last year. Sorry to post yet another list, but we’re in exam crunch time, and I don’t think I have the capacity to do an all-out post.

1. Firstly and most obviously, my parents got divorced. A year ago was when I found out, and about 8 months ago, it became official. This has effected my life in so many ways, it’s hard to count. My mom and I have become a ton closer, and my dad and I fight way less than we did when he lived with us.
2. I met the Core. Well, I’ve known Eddie and Jamiekinz since 8th grade, but we’ve added Maestro. I think we’ve become really close this year (we even named ourselves), through Fools, exam crunching, and spending every break and lunch in Ches’s room, which has become our little hangout. I don’t think I need to say exactly how much these guys have changed my life. I wouldn’t be able to fit it into this list anyway.
3. I became chums with my brother. In The Sunscreen Song, he tells us to “Be nice to your siblings; they are the best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.” And he’s fully right. Our brothers and sisters have been there since birth, and every person we’ve known and every major event we’ve gone through, they’ll remember. So my and Tony’s relationship has fully changed over this past year, and I’m so glad that it did, before he goes off to college.
4. We moved houses. The move from Fairways to Westmoorings completely changed my life, and allowed me to befriend a whole new group of people (see number 5). It majorly lowered the stress level in everday tasks, and chilled us out. It gave us the ability to go, “Hey, Mom? Can I go to James’ to study after school today?” and not have to worry about how you’re getting home, can we get a driver, traffic, that madness.
5. I got tight with another group of people – Amanda, Maria, and Tara. Though they’re fun to hang out with as a group, I got to know them individually moreso this year (and living half a block from Manda didn’t hurt). I learned that while no one could ever replace the Core, knowing people outside of our group is a lot of fun.
6. I got my braces off. They were put on in May of 8th grade, and though I despised them much of the time, a lot of my old insecurity issues about my teeth are now gone. And now I wear the hidden badge of honor, the permenant retainer, the only indication that someone has been through the hell that is braces.
7. I lost some really close friends, in particular, Nora. Her leaving was one of the hardest things that’s happened to me in a while, but I think having such kickass friends really helped me pull through it. I remember driving away from her house after saying bye, sobbing into my hands. Tara and Maria hugged me and promised to take care of me, and they did. I’ll always be grateful to them for that.
8. A big portion of this year for me was spent dealing with my man issues. They were finally resolved a couple days ago, and life seems a lot simpler now. But it’s about to get much more complicated, when it comes time to make the decision about what to do when I leave. Not-so-deep-down, though, I already know the answer.
9. Three teachers in my life crossed the student-teacher-relationship line, and became like parents away from home: Ms. Chesler, Lentzy, and Kaster. The first two I’ve known for two years, and the third only for one, but these teachers made this school year bearable for me, whether it was listening to my every problem and reading my blog faithfully, discussing current events and when the world will destroy itself, or being an all-around good teacher, who taught me more than I thought would fit in my head.
10. I became more of an actress than I have before. Working with Mr. Levy through two productions, and being in his Drama class all year, I think I’ve gained some valuable skills that I won’t quickly forget. I found my niche there for a while, being in the play and following that schedule, and I came to find that I like it. A lot.
11. I found some creative outlets. My blog, photography, even decorating my room, all help me relieve stress, and though I’m still not a fabulous painter or drawer like my friends, I think I now express myself in my own way, and I’m perfectly content with that.
12. I learned that you should never forget your roots. Sometimes we get so caught up in the everyday, where we are now, or where we want to be, we never think about where we came from. I slapped childhood memorabilia across my mirrors, created a memory box of special things from my life, and stuck pictures of my parents into a locket which I now rarely take off. I know I need to be aware of the future, but if you forget your past, it’s like forgetting who you are, and I don’t want my wacky lifestyle to do that to me.
13. I started thinking about the world outside of my laptop. I’ve begun caring about things like politics, the economy, international affairs, things I never thought about while living in Dhaka. I’ve dropped my naivety about the world, and I’ve realized what’s really going on out there. I don’t tune out every time I hear Wolf Blitzer rant, because I care now, something I didn’t do at 13.
14. I’ve learned new ways to define myself. I’ve decided my opinions on important topics, so now I can safely call myself a pro-choice, Democrat, pro-gay rights, feminist, athiest teenager. Especially that last one – I have formed my own opinions of religion, instead of floating along saying “Uhh..I don’t…have one?”. This has drastically changed me and the way I precieve the world.
15. Canada happened. I know by the time I move there, I’ll be 15, but all of this, the pre-Canada? That all happened while I was 14, and if I may say so myself, I’ve dealt with it (or I will deal with it) better than some 14-year-olds I know would or could. I’ve mentally prepared for a whole year that this is my Trini tour coming to an end, and now it’s crunch time, when I actually have to live through it. Living here has changed my life. Just look at what’s happened in one year of being here, let alone all three.

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Painted Nails and Rain Delays

Our Detroit Tigers were scheduled to play against the Chicago White Sox today, but because of rain in Chicago, the game was delayed by three hours. While hanging out in our living room, my mom and I (sans Tony, he was at Lucas’) did a whole mess of things to occupy our time, like:

1. I took off my red nail polish (left over from prom) and put on black. Dr. K. makes goth comments whenever I have black nails at school, but they give me a weird kind of condfidence that other colors can’t.
2. WGN, the channel meant to be showing the Tigers game, showed old retro shows while we waited. Today, they were showing “I Dream of Jeannie”, a show I’ve never watched before but instantly fell in love with. The show is about a woman, Jeannie, who is literally a genie in a bottle. She has to pretend to be married to her “master”, the guy who found her lamp. She can use all her genie powers by simply nodding her head, but she has to keep it a secret. Hilarity ensues.
3. An episode of Wife Swap (we had to leave the TV on all afternoon, waiting for the game, hence all the TV on this list) was on, where an etiqutte teacher switched places with a mom who couldn’t care less about keeping clean. This spawned conversations about who in our extended family would switch with whom, and what type of woman would my mom switch with.
4. In planning my/Maria’s birthday/going away party, I made a list of songs we MUST have played at the party, including, “Don’t Stop Believing”, by Journey, and “Africa”, by Toto – this spawned (I used that word once already. Ah well) a *heated* conversation with Eoin about what constitutes a boring party. I refuse to allow five hours of soca at my party, since it all sounds the same, but he claims too much retro music is lame. HERMPH!
5. My mom, feeling slackish for sitting in front of the TV for so long, decided that during each adbreak, she would organize something. So far, she’s done end tables, the desk from the kitchen, and the TV cupboard full of casettes.
6. We watched the last section of Grease – “We’ll Always Be Together”, and “You’re The One That I Want” – complete with “hoo-hoo-hooo, HONEY”ing. ‘Nuff said.
7. I discovered that my Dad pre-ordered Sims 3 for me back in December as a Christmas present. He had forgotten to tell me, and I only found out today when my mom CASUALLY dropped it into conversation. Read posts below (i.e. So you’ve got the God Complex) if you don’t already know about my addiction to Sims. That should give you an idea of how big this news is to me.
8. Shada lazed around, acting like the cat she thinks she is. Her mood this afternoon reflected ours.
9. I realized that every once in a while, you should just take a day. I know this is prime exam studying time, and that that’s what everyone else I know is doing, but before I get into The Crunch, I’m taking today as my relaxing day, and it’s been pretty fabulous, rain delays and all.

Junebug

Every three years, we pack up and move to a new place. We leave our current post in late June, after school gets out. My birthday + exams + packout + school ending = one hell of a June. I call it the Junebug. Everyone is hyped up and stressed out (mostly me and my mom) and everything seems so rushed. The teachers freak out because there are seven school days left, no one has taught everything they needed to teach, people get sick from doing so much work, we try to plan birthday parties and going away parties, and it’s just one big explosion of energy. The Junebug, not an old 50’s style of dancing. And this happens every third June of my life, without fail, and of course, it’s happening again this year. Only this particular June, it’s magnified, because Tony’s graduating.

It’s still hard to believe my big old brother is going off to college. He still seems too young to go. Like someone is taking him away before he’s ready and he’ll just crawl into a corner and die there. Of course, I know he won’t. He’ll have a ball at college, he’ll get all politically active and meet awesome new people. But it’s a marker as to how much my family and my life have changed over the last couple years.

My mom always says that the Chinese believe that every 12 years, you start a new period of your life. Sitting in the boiling Spanish room this afternoon, ignoring “Do your workk, goiyes” and trying not to fall asleep, I thought about this. From the time I was born until I turned 12, my life was relatively linear, with the same setup, plus the occasional international move. My mom worked, first as an English teacher, and later as a diplomat, and my dad was a stay-at-home dad, as a carpenter, and later got regular work hours as an editor. I think of this period of time as my childhood. I know I’m still technically a kid now, but this was steroetypical childhood (and later, puberty) – playing with Legos and Hot Wheels in Tony’s room, having my ridiculously long platinum blonde hair, and not really caring about the outside world.

Then I turned 12, and we moved to Trinidad. And that was when everything changed in my life. My dad, who had found his niche at an NGO in Dhaka, couldn’t find work here, so he moved to DC, and now, two years later, they’re divorced. We moved houses, from our dingy Fairways house that will always remind me of my father, to this new Westmoorings one, which makes me want to have people over and which my dad has never seen.

My mom has become an independent single woman, taking care of Tony and I by herself, and preparing for our move to Winnipeg, the first time in 25 years she’s moved without my dad. Tony’s grown into a real adult, drinking booze around the house and having a serious girlfriend. I don’t quite know how I’ve changed. I got my ears pierced, twice. Got braces on and off. Met The Core. I like to think I’ve matured at least a little. I know I’ve definitely become more opinionated and more politically aware. I followed the elections and inaguaration carefully, the first time in my life I understood what was going on.

The American regime of Republicans (technically just one Republican) in office ended. We had another Olympics.

We’re moving to Canada. Canada, and then the US, represent my next twelve, until I’m 24. I see them as the place where I’ll really become independent, learning to drive, moving out and going to college. So maybe the Chinese are right, maybe each 12-year segment of your life is a new start, a fresh leaf, of sorts. Though it seems like a long time to wait for your life to be overturned again, so much has already happened in the first three years of my second segment – what does that say for the other nine I have yet to live through?

The Promenade of June 6th

Laaast night here in TNT was our school prom. On a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being “I was bored out of my mind”, 10 being “I never wanted to leave” – I had about a 6. I wasn’t particularly bored, because a lot was going on, but having just got back from Matura, I was pretty exhausted. We went out Leatherback turtle tagging (I’ll write a later post about all of this in a while) – left the inn where we stayed at 7, left the beach at 1 am, getting back to the rooms and asleep around 3. We got up 3 hours later, to go on a relatively streneous hike (the one the previous day was more work) before leaving Matura and coming back to Port of Spain. I got home, showered, packed my bags, and an hour later had to leave the comforts of my room for a friend’s house, to get ready for el prom.

I don’t know where the tradition of getting ready with friends started, but I appreciate it. It’s generally my favorite part of any party, except for when you crash into bed afterwards. Though tensions were running high at one point, it always feels good to get doled up all purty like. It’s a self esteem boost that everyone deserves once in a while. That’s why it’s called “Prom”, though. It’s a promenade. It’s an event where you put on makeup, shave your legs, straighten your hair, paint your nails, all for the purpose of showing off to the people around you. You strut around for hours looking gorgeous to get attention, and hopefully have some fun doing it. I leaned over and said to someone last night, “Aww, how cute, look at the freshmen with their feathers all plucked and noice.” We turn into peacocks, displaying our colors for the sole purpose of having people look at us.

After arriving at prom, it was the usual “ohmigodd you look soooo prettyyy” comments to pass around, the posed pictures to be taken, and all the people to greet. I’ll agree with Ed and James, I wasn’t a fan of the repetitive soca music. Soca is relatively hard to define, actually. It’s loud and pouding and it’s only purpose is to get your toes tapping and your booty wiggling. It’s played ’round the clock at Carnival, a national three-day party every March. Its perfect niche is at someone’s dance birthday party, or, obviously, at Carnival. Prom, though, is another thing. Again, see Ed and Jamie’s blogs for the whole description, but I’ll just say that in comparison to American proms, it was pretty out of place. Come to think of it, though, in comparison to a Trini “school dance”, it was exactly what you’d expect. The Trinis don’t really know any better. They don’t know that in the States, a live band is hired, who plays a balanced mix of fast and slow songs, and the night is more about socialzing (and electing prom royalty) then it is about dancing. To Trinidadians, any event where people get doled up, get together, and get funky requires some hard soca music. But I’ve come to the point in my three years where I’ve come to expect these sort of things from Trinidad, and I wasn’t really surprised (though not entirely happy) when it was four hours of soca and 15 minutes of slow songs.

Now, after last week’s madness, I have a nice, short, three day week, because there’s yet another of those miscellaneous Trini holidays on a Thursday. I get to relax for these three days, and then begin the exam crunch – the two weeks where we’re in lockdown as we attempt to pass some classes. Expect a birthday related post for my 15th, and a contemplative one about how best to do My Finale.

“Oh, and you’re lost, too, did you know?”

Here comes a post out of guilt. I haven’t blogged since early May, for a lot of reasons, most importantly the play, “Fools” (for a long description, check Ed’s blog, yet again). So I’ll ramble until I find something to talk about, eh?

Things are weird in my life right now. Firstly, I’ve realized that I use the word “weird” too much. But other than that, I’m stuck in what feels like the longest week of my life. With a Biology test, the Matura trip, followed quickly by prom, it was already packed. Now, however, it’s become worse, because I stayed home sick today. I’m not all that sick, actually, it’s just that my white blood cells were slacking, causing my (adrenal glands to oversec–HA, just kidding) Kleenex box (phew!) to empty faster than my house of plants. A little explanation: we can’t take any of our 5 billion plants to Cyanadia, so we’re selling them all tonight and over the next few days.

On the topic of the moving process, I’ve decided to take my blog in a new direction, and this is the post to announce it. After making my and James’ radio documentary (entitled “LOL”), and chatting about it at Spaghetti Night, I realized that a blog is not a diary, like I’ve been (sort of) treating mine. Don’t get me wrong, I’ll still keep my personal voice going, but talk about more the events in my life than just my random thoughts. Plus, now that I’m moving to Winterpeg, my blog will be a good source for my friends to know what’s ACTUALLY happening during the move and once we get there, rather than the “BEBEE! MOMMAAA! I MISS YOUUU! I LOVE YOUUU! HOW’S CANADA?!? GOOOOD! COOOLLDD!” MSN conversation Jamie and I will have (but I’ll love those too, Bebe ). So, on that note:

Technically, by definiton, I’m what you call a “Third Culture Kid”. I’ve figured out that since one parent can have Culture A (say, Latina), and the other can have Culture B (say, Russian), if you grow up with a mix of these cultures, plus all the other ones, you have Culture C, or are a Third Culture Child. Since my ‘rents are American and English, and I only sort of identify with these, I get to be in the C group. It’s a relatively small collection of kids, from what I’ve seen, but who knows, maybe they all hang out somewhere I’ve never been.

Long story short, I’m terrified of going to a local school in Canada, my first non-international one in eight years. In those schools (ASW – American School of Warsaw; AISD – American International School of Dhaka; and ISPS – International School of Port of Spain), kids coming and going every two or three years was common and expected. Getting five to ten new kids at the start of a new year wasn’t a big surprise. But in American public schools, getting a new kid (god forbid in the middle of the year) is like an alien coming. I told my cousin’s friend that I lived in Dhaka, and she asked a) “Where’s Duckland?” and b) “Do they wear underwear there?”. Case in point. Now, I’ve never been to Canada, so I wouldn’t know, but being a private, non-international school, I wonder what exactlyt those Kanucks’ll think of me? Will they, like small-town Michiganers, alienate me because I’ve lived abroad my whole life?

My mom and I were talking yesterday about using the public library in her hometown of Marysville, Michigan. I confessed how I feel so awkward going there, because everyone is cold and not all too friendly. She responded that all Marysville residents are like that if they don’t know your family three generations back. But they do. My mom was born and raised in Marysville, just like her mom, and her mom, and her mom. They’re like one of those old Southern families with a plantation, except they live in the North (and don’t have a plantation). But because my mom is the scandalous one who lives in all these far-off places, her kids are like unknown travelers to the rest of the town. At Christmas, I was standing in my cousin’s (whose name is Shayleigh, or Shay, to make this story easier) driveway with one of her friends (whose name escapes me, but who I’ll call Ashley (since they all seem to be called that)). They were chatting it up, blah blah, boys and makeup, when Ashley said to Shay, “How long is your family here?”. I had no clue what she meant, so assuming she meant Shay’s OTHER family (as in, her dad’s side (since her mom and my mom are sisters)), I stayed quiet. Shay then said, “I dunno”, turned to me, and said, “How long are you here?” I told her, and she turned back to her friend and repeated my answer. Her friend “ohh”-ed, and the conversation continued. It was one of the most odd experiences of that trip – it was if the friend thought Shay would have to translate for me. Like, just because I live somewhere else, means I speak a different language too.

But I guess the majority of my mom’s family plain doesn’t get our lifestyle. Take my grandma, for instance, who knew we lived in Warsaw, but never said what country it was in, thought Bangladesh and India were the same thing, and now has given up on remembering the name “Trinidad” and instead asks how life is on “your island”.

Kay, I’m now realizing this is a pretty epic post, but I wanted to make up for my month of absence. To concluuuude my rambling about my life: it’s a weird (SEE? SAID IT AGAIN) way to live, but it’s my way of living, and I’m okay with it, for now. As for the theory that we Thirdies (heh. hehe.) will have issues with staying in one place for more than 3 years, we’ll have to see, eh? See – already talking like a Canadian.

PS: Thought I should add this. The title for this post came from a Spag Night conversation, when we were definining Thirdies and how I, apparently, am one. I said how weird this name was, and how it’s such a label, when Mr. Kaster turned to me and said, “Oh, and you’re lost, too, did you know?”. “Shucks.” I replied. “That sucks.”

Zee Adrenal Glands Are Oversecreting!/The times, they are a-chaaangin’

It’s that time again, where I make an extremely long (or maybe short…I haven’t started it very much yet) post about what’s going on in my life. I suppose a more appropiate title for this post would be something like “My May Days”, since this’ll basically be an update on May, but that ain’t my sttyyyyle, home skillet. Plus, for the last three days, Mai’s line from the play (“Sometimes, zees can cause zee adrenal glands to oversecrete, causing a sudden rush to zee ‘ead.”) has been stuck in my and my friends’ heads, and REFUSES to leave. PLUS, I had one of those killer 8-hour headaches last night, so I actually got to say that line. Winn.

So, what’s going on with me. Rehearsals are becoming INCREASINGLY more frequent, given that the play is in, oh, nine days. This past Saturday, we had a long-ass rehearsal at school, where we, for the first time, did our makeup. Most of us in the play have to look pretty old (my character, Lenya, has a 19 year old daughter), so we did that makeup, only since it’s for the stage, it’s x10 as dramatic (da dum chee). The base layer I have to put on it is pretty orange compared to my usual skintone, which makes my eyes PAWP in comparison. It’s SERIOUSLY WACK to see how I’ll look when I’m older. I’ve predicted laughter lines and crow’s feet, from the amount of smiling I do. But it makes you live longer. Right? RIGHT?

Vat else. SEE, THESE DAMN RUSSIAN ACCENTS ARE HAUNTING ME. In other news, the AP madness is nearly over. Eoin’s done with his, thank god, but I can’t remember what it was like before he got into the studying period. Wtf’s it gonna be like now, I wonder? Mai’s also done with hers, she took AP French and I’m positive she passed. Ed’s Human Geography one is on Friday, and he’ll pwn, because he keeps getting stuff like 74/75 on the multiple choice mocks. I always feel so grownup and proud of my bebes when they sound so smart talking about their exams. *sniff* Maybe I’m too much of a proud momma.

AP subject leads us to talking about my life. We all got the course selection sheets for next year (this was last Friday), and even though I’m not graduating from here, I’m still all ancy about what classes to take, and what do I want to focus on, and should I take AP Psychology? Read Eddie’s latest post for more details about the process – but for me, this is all pretty scary. For conversation purposes, I’m just *pretending* that I’m graduating from here, making it easier to think about. But who knows? Canada could have a TOOOTALLY different system. Like this dual-enrollment thing, which for some reason I still don’t understand.

I feel weird about the future lately. Which is why this post has that second title to it. It’s a Bob Dylan song, whose voice (I think I mentioned in my rambling music post) always depresses me. It’s just about how the way everything is now, will soon get flipped on its head. “The loser now, will be later the winner.” Like that. It just feels like everything in my life is about to get picked up, shaken up, and plopped down somewhere else. It’s, what, 46 days til I leave. 38 days til my birhday. 25 days til prom. 16 days til I get my braces off. 9 days til the play.

Negative days until the Scrubs finale. I’ve said so many times that I don’t, don’t, DON’T want to talk about it, because it’ll make me cry. Because it will. I mean, if something has been a part of your life for 5 or 6 years, and it’s suddenly over, you can’t help but feel a little alone. Also because the finale (SPOILER ALERT DO NOT READ ON IF YOU HAVE NOT SEEN THE SCRUBS SEASON FINALE) was all about JD leaving Sacred Heart, and how he’s going to miss everything that happened to him in the 8 years since he was an intern, and all the people he’s leaving behind, but also about the people coming with him. Made me think about when I have to leave – okay, sorry, Jamie, Ed, who read this and who I know don’t want to think about it yet, but I think about it so much. It’s this huge part of my life, picking up everything and plopping down somewhere else. But it’s really not all bad. With Ches’ karma-filled table, all of our stuff out of storage, my bike (YAAAY), the Tigers chairs (long story), and everything else coming with us, Canada promises to be wicked fun. So I am looking forward to it. But at the same time, I’m really not. I dunno, it’s like this everytime I move. I get over it soon enough. Just wait til I have to write The Swan Song post (for some reason, that’s the title that sticks in my head, after reading James’ one after Feenster left).

So, yeah. Upon re-reading, most of that post doesn’t make sense, so comment if you need some clarifying. It’s just refreshing to put the jumble that is my brain these days into a post. Ahhhh, blogging FTW.

PS: The summary, in post-form, of my and Jamieson’s *SCATHING* radio documentary about the internet – coming soon.